Wednesday, March 18, 2009

I am back

Dear sisters,
I am back from Penang. We had a great time together. We visited the parent-in-law. Seeing them getting older, feel that we have to bring Sean to visit them more often. We enjoyed the food. There is one big shopping centre nearby. We went shopping as things are cheaper in Malaysia.

Recently, my hubby & I had a fight about the maid. I complained abt her and he got upset with me. This trip helped us to have a break, shifted our focus on other things. We had a talk and got resolved be4 we went Penang. But in this incident, I saw how ugly of myself. I am self-righteous and get angry easily. My hubby doesn't know about Christianity. He is not keen to know GOD now. But he can see GOD through me...abt what I did...what I say...what I comment...how I treat others...he all see. Sometimes I am harsh towards the maid because I did not trust her and I feel insecure towards her. Sometimes when she made little mistake, I showed her a long face…
Bible says "we have to love one another..." I want to start at home to love those I feel difficult to love...I want to change in this area...the ugly side of me always at home. In Proverbs 12:4 "A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones" It is so wonderful if can be my husband’s crown…
Wendy

4 comments:

cccsisterhood said...
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cccsisterhood said...

Welcome back to the fellowship. I believe you will be an awesome wife to your husband, great mother to sean and a good boss to your helper...

SaltyTan said...

So awesome to hear you have resolved with your hubby.

SK

SaltyTan said...

My mind not working very well. Beem working late. I mean I wanted to end off as
"love,sk" and not just "sk"

ps: Maybe can have breakfast on Friday ;)