Sis,
Recently I quarrel w my hubby on some small matter. My hubby is a person who doesnt want to express himself. He doesnt show love to me. Ever since he came back from overseas, our lives are v routine. Every night after dinner, he will go to his own world either serve the internet or watch TV. I encouraged him many times to attend some family talks like parenting or marraige workshop. He just rejected me. Sometimes I am q mad w him. Thanks John & Karren, I learnt a lot in the marraige workshop. Sometimes I felt helpless as I know how to improve our marriage but the husband just not willing to work w me. The definition for his love to the family is to earn $ and to provide us w materialised things. But what I want is to spend more time w him and talk deep in our hearts. I asked him to go out have talk but he rather stay at home. If celebrate special occasion, my hubby will bring along my son. I felt like I have resentment towards him.
Soon Keow thanks for your companion. After talking to you, you encouraged me and remind me to be submissive to GOD. I felt I really have to fight against this situation w GOD. I have to be more determined to rely on GOD. Sis...I need your advice on how to be a better wife. If I am not humble, pls let me know! I know when I am not close to GOD, I intend to have a lot of complains & bitterness.
The previous Friday, the lesson was just for me. Karen shared that if the wife likes to complain, it will just ruin their marriage.
Well...I know that I am not fighting alone...Thks sis..I felt so encouraging by your love...
LOVE YOU,
Wendy
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Dear Wendy,
Thank you for yr sharing... I believe it is easy for you....
But....
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (ROman 8:28)
Wendy you love God . and I believe God know your situation and care for you too. and let God assures you that no matter what is happening in your life, God is working for your good.
Your need to trust God 's promises is not only for us but also for the Eunice sister like you too...
In HIs own timing,,, God will slowly open the heart of your husband..
I think Of an example.. Esther has a non- christian husband..the king..maybe you go and read it and get strength from the bible.
remember,- No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. and GOD IS FAITHFUL; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.(1 cor 10:13)
Wendy, I always so proud of you and your conviction in the LOrd.You hav inspired us !
Continue to trust and rely in the LOrd.
Luv,
veron
Dearest Sis,
have been praying for you. Hope things are better. Anyway, I believe (with our pact today, u know what I mean), it will be better.
I am always grateful for a sister like u too. Esp when my relationship with close colleagues get challenging and the world offers no encouragement. You are a GodSend.
Love,sk
Dear Sis,
Amen. I am sure God is proud of you, just deciding to do what is right though it ain't easy.
Will be praying for you.
Love, Bee
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