Am i blessed or am i spoil??

My husband and i had married for four years. Yeah, we're still very young couple. Still have so much to learn from those oldest married. Ha ha ha.... Our married can be say, still great, romantic, lovely and peace. We hardly quarrel. Yes, we did had few disagreement, end up angry with each other instead of fight or big quarrel. When comes to this problem, my husband was always the one who make a move. No matter who's right or wrong (of course both are wrong), my husband still make the first move. He always humble to me and asked for forgiveness.

Most of you know, we are mix married. We both born and grow up in totally different country. Learn totally different from school, have totally different kind of friends and jobs, eat totally different type of food. Of course, when both live together, life style are totally different too. Just likes most married couples, you have your way, i have my way. Somehow, God make it works for us. We're not as popular as John and Karen. But because of my story, and my husband who make the different in church. We somehow a bit popular. Good is, lot of people knows us. Bad is, we actually had stress by showing good example to others (afraid of making mistake).

Well.... In this four years. My husband never ever ask me to wake him up for work, wash his clothing, iron his uniforms, pack his luggage, changing his towel and socks, clean the messy house, cook the food that he want and the list so much on.... Yes, i say it again, he never ask me at all. He wake up everyday for work by himself. If he overslept, he never shout or scream, or make lot of banding noise. He still quietly clean himself and go off. When uniforms are dirty, he will put one side and he will wash it later. Most of the times i see it, i will pick up, wash it and fold it back for him. He will thanks me every time i do it. There's lot of times i forget too. He never yell or scold me for not doing it. He blame himself for not doing his job. He never ask me to iron his clothing, he do all by himself. He knows when to change dirty clothing, towel, underwear, socks by himself. If he need any urgent clothing, he will pick and wash it by himself. Every time out of town, he will pack his luggage by himself without me. Whatever i cook, he will just eat without complain. I admit, that's those time i cook, it taste yuck. I really throw aways those food, after i taste it the way not i want to be. To my husband, he taste it all right. He will still eat it, unless i asked him not too. He never complain why yesterday food are better than today food. He never. When he looks at the house was so messy, he never complain why i did not clean and pack the house, since i stay at home the whole day. He let me be.

How about when we had disagreement and get angry with each other? Guess what? My husband never fail to cover me with blanket, give me goodbye kiss and come back home kiss. Yes, when we get angry, my husband will still make sure i get the blanket cover and kiss me and say "I love you" then walk away. He will deal with it when he back home. My husband wakes up early in the morning at around 5am. How do i know whether he kiss me or not while i still sleeping and dreaming? I actually test him couples of time. Ha ha ha.... So bad right! My husband will kiss me one, if i not response, he kiss me the second time, and the same the third time. If i still not response, he will still go to work. He will text me and tell me he love me, give me three kisses when i still sleeping. When i response to his kiss, he will wish me a great day or will say "I love you". After his work, he will called home to check anything i want or need to buy when he on the way back. No matter is one item or few items, my husband never complain why i so troublesome. The last, my husband never complain why i spent so much money. He did not limited what amount i spent. He allow me to buy what i want, and use credit card when i want. He never check what i buy, what on the list, or show him receipt. He never ask for it at all. When he saw the bills, he just pay for it without any question ask. The worse is grocery, i can buy lot of baking stuffs and play with my cooking and baking. My grocery will cost between US$250 to US$400 a month, sometime more than that. He still never complain what i buy. He just go to the cashier and pay for it. He even push the cart for me, i just throw whatever i pick on the shelves. My husband never let me carry bags of stuffs, he will carry all for me. He still open doors for me when we still dating, until now he still do the same. He never complain about my "xiao jia temper". He will leave me alone when i angry, and will asked me more when i cool down.

So what i actually do at home?? Just take care of baby, cooking/baking and spent money?? Sisters, you will think this type of man is very hard to find nowadays. Brothers, you will say my husband spoil the market. Guess what? Nobody is perfect, my husband has his ugly side too. But i never record his ugly side, and i never want to tell others about it. If you want me to share, i will get Grr...... Worst than my kids. My kids, i can punish them, scold them, teach them, but husband i cant. So i just accept him, because he always the perfect husband, father in my heart. He also my hero, who serve and protect the country. Without him, i will not have peace sleep. Without him, i will not enjoy my life now. So am i blessed or am i spoil? I had asked myself this question for few times. I think is both. God blessed me this wonderful man, my husband spoil me to show how much he loves me.

Love you
Diana