Why does my child have special needs?

Well, I do complain at times but... this verse helps me alot!

"My thoughts are completely different from yours, says the Lord.
"And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.
For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts

God's reasons are completely different from me.

It's not my responsibility to always understand. But it is my responsiblity to always trust.

It is difficult to see our children suffer because they are different. we suffer with them.
But bible says we are being transformed to become like Jesus when we suffer. Suffering helps us to develop perseverance.

This verse come to my mind:

James 1:4
..perseverance must finish its work so that we may be mature and complete in Christ.

thanks for reading.
veron